Do good guys exist? Where are they?!?

My last bf definitely used me, manipulating me to the point where I basically defended and disregarded things I knew werent right, including us having sex even tho I'm 16 and he's 23 or 24. He hasnt talked to me In 2 weeks since I told him off over something, and I'm hurt and really want to date someone else who's better for me. I kinda like older guys cuz they give me a sense of security different than with guys my age. Any advice? I could really use it. Thanks